Twelve of Front Porch’s communities have a person on staff dedicated to spiritual care, though the titles may vary from chaplain to director of spiritual life to director of spiritual services. All have at least a master’s degree as well as specialized training, either through an internship or a program called Clinical Pastoral Education, or CPE.

Although the role of spiritual care may include leading religious services and coordinating worship services with resident faith groups, chaplains are trained to support people of all faiths – or no faith. Laura Mancuso, spiritual life director at Vista del Monte in Santa Barbara, explained, “I view my role as helping the residents connect with their personal sources of spiritual strength, whether that involves religion or not. I endeavor to accompany them through life’s difficult moments, so that they are not alone.”

Bev Franco, chaplain at Casa de Mañana in La Jolla, notes that one of the things people misunderstand about spiritual care is thinking that it is only about religion, or that it’s only for Christians. Instead, it’s about anything that brings meaning and purpose into someone’s life – relationships, nature, political causes or the sacred.

Spiritual care helps people “feel connected to the sacred, to nature and to each other, and recognizes the ways they can find meaning and purpose,” said Franco. “Although spiritual care is sometimes overtly religious, such as leading worship, Bible studies and memorial services, it is more often helping people who are lonely, bored, depressed and isolated.”

“What I love about my role is participating with residents as they reflect on the present through the lens of their life: work history, family, travel and their personal and communal search for meaning and purpose,” said Hans Hoch, chaplain at San Francisco Towers. These reflections may happen through groups and activities, or in one-on-one conversations, in settings that are formal or informal.

Listening is a major part of spiritual care. “There is a universal human need for being known and heard,” said Schaar. “Spiritual care provides opportunities for people to process major life experiences such as grief, loss, change and more through the lenses of meaning and spiritual truth.”

“I listen, and then I listen,” said Meredith Cahn, chaplain at St. Paul’s Towers in Oakland. “Spiritual care is about attending to the spirit of the residents: being present when they are in need, offering an open heart and presence; offering opportunities to create or identify meaning and purpose and connection; offering opportunities to express the full range of emotions.”

“So much of health care these days is so rushed and impersonal,” Mancuso said. “I take special pride in not hurrying people when they are in the middle of a delicate or significant process. Our visits are definitely not a ‘50-minute hour.’ And they can happen spontaneously, on the sidewalk or in the dining room, as well as in my office or the resident’s home.”

Spiritual care in a community also allows chaplains to build deep relationships with residents. In a hospital setting, chaplains need to be able to engage people rapidly and move on quickly, as they typically only participate in a person’s life for a matter of hours, days, or weeks at most. In Front Porch communities, because of the close relationships nurtured with residents across the years, “when something happens suddenly and I walk in the room, I already know the resident’s spiritual or religious orientation, and some of their quirks, and they’re likely to already trust me,” said Mancuso. As a result, “We can get to the heart of the matter very quickly, sometimes even without many words.”

“I love being involved in our residents’ lives in a deep way, beyond superficial talk, especially in liminal moments,” said Cahn. “I love being able to share spiritual wisdom and support, because they give me at least as much, if not more, than I give them.”

“I find that my connections with the residents deepen with every year that I’m at Vista,” said Mancuso. “What I cherish most about my role in my community is that the residents invite me in to their hearts during some of the most sensitive and challenging moments of their lives. They are incredible human beings! It’s a great privilege to accompany them on their life journeys.”

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Holy Days

Since gathering in person is not a possibility, the chaplains have found new ways to offer Holy Week and Passover services for their communities.

At Spring Lake Village, Chaplains Jacquie Robb and Jeanne Forte have worked with a member of the Wellness staff to record services for Palm Sunday and Easter that are broadcast on the community’s internal TV channel. Bulletins are distributed to interested residents so that all can participate, including singing along with favorite hymns.

For Passover, Chaplain Meredith Cahn worked with Well Connected to develop a virtual Seder that will be offered live on Zoom on Thursday, April 9. Residents from all Covia communities as well as seniors living elsewhere can register to join by calling Well Connected at 877-797-7299 or emailing coviaconnections@covia.org. Cahn also created a coronavirus-related haggadah, available for all participants. The St. Paul’s Towers community in Oakland, where Cahn serves as chaplain, is creating individual Seder plates that will be delivered to the apartments of residents who wish to participate.

At San Francisco Towers, Chaplain Hans Hoch is assisting the community’s Passover celebration with Congregation Emanu-El via Zoom and offering opening remarks and welcome. He is also broadcasting Sunday services through the community’s CCTV.

Every day

Chaplains have been turning to phone calls and other ways of reaching out and staying connected. Chaplain Cahn from St. Paul’s Towers says, “I provide one-on-one support over every remote medium I can.” Chaplain Kevin Philips from Canterbury Woods says, “I make several calls each day and so far have reached over 80% of the community in meaningful conversations.” “People need connection; they are so appreciative of calls,” says Chaplain Robb at Spring Lake Village.

The chaplains have also adapted to using Zoom as a way to offer services and keep connected – including helping residents learn the new system. Chaplain Cahn, who had surgery in early March, says, “Since I was expecting to be on medical leave convalescing from surgery, this has happened at a perfect time to work remotely. As soon as the shelter in place orders came, I was able to start working with our amazing IT staff member, Eric Powell, to introduce residents to Zoom.”

Using Zoom provides opportunities for residents to meet for services and spiritual practices. Chaplain Forte, drawing from her Episcopal tradition, is offering an evening Compline service daily by Zoom for residents at Spring Lake Village while Chaplain Robb is offering a weekly meditation class through the Zoom application. “Fourteen people came to our first meeting!” Robb reports.

Along with providing spiritual care for residents, the chaplains are a resource for Covia’s employees as well. Many of the chaplains are providing daily emails with reflections, spiritual practices, and other resources for their colleagues. Chaplain Philips from Canterbury Woods shared his own poem, Strange Days, to emphasize that “There is nothing that can keep our hearts apart.” Another day, Lily Godsoe, chaplain at Webster House, shared a simple breathing meditation practice to help reduce stress.

Laura Darling, VP of Spiritual Care for Covia, sends a daily email to staff at Support Services (Covia’s administrative offices in Walnut Creek – now all working remotely), Community Services, and Covia’s Affordable Communities. “One of the things I hope to do with these spiritual care emails is provide a real range of ways to connect with your spirit,” she said in one of her emails, which included a link to a 10-minute meditation video, a downloadable sheet for coloring, and the link to a blog post providing support and encouragement. “These emails are meant to provide support for people who come from a wide range of religious backgrounds, including those with no religious background at all,” Darling says. “This pandemic is affecting all of us, and we need to support one another in all kinds of ways.”

Advice from the Chaplains

When asked what they would say to help those who are socially distancing take care of their spirit, the chaplains had this advice:

Chaplain Jacquie Robb, Spring Lake Village: Give yourself plenty of rest and good food; don’t worry so much about getting things accomplished but give yourself time to BE with yourself and connect with others.

Try to Zoom with each other and do things together online. For instance, I’m watching a play that is offered online with a friend from Maine. Find a routine. Keep moving your body. Pray/meditate. Ask God the hard questions (Where are you in all this?) and listen for a response.

Chaplain Jeanne Forte, Spring Lake Village: Be gentle with yourself. There will be time, when this pandemic is over, for ‘amendment of life’ things. Now is not the time to launch into demanding life changes. Keep things simple. Keep things kind. Be generous with yourself.​

Chaplain Meredith Cahn, St. Paul’s Towers: Be in regular contact with loved ones – daily, or even more often, using every medium possible. Help your parent/grandparent/whoever get on Zoom or Skype or Facetime. Exercise, eat healthy, limit news intake. Laugh when you can find it. Dance. Recognize and name your fears, and see if you can let them go.

Chaplain Kevin Philips, Canterbury Woods: Food for the spirit comes in so many forms and by so many conduits. For those I know who have faith in something, I will encourage tapping in to that. For those who are able, I encourage walks or just sitting on a bench somewhere on our beautiful campus. For those with only a phone, I suggest calling up old friends. For those with Zoom, I pass on information about how to connect with others. For those without Zoom who have a computer, I encourage them to download it and give them the information they need to do that. 

I hear myself say to people who are angry or having some other ego dystonic feeling:  “Don’t judge your feelings. That will only make it worse. Feelings are feelings and don’t have to be rational. Just accept that you are feeling that way and let it pass through you.” 

Image: Chaplains at a weekly Zoom meeting. 

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